Friday, February 5, 2021

[shopping links] Supporting Black-Owned Businesses in J-fashion

Happy Black History Month! Please remember to follow BIPOC who have been active and innovating in alternative and Japanese fashions. I'll be reviewing my purchases from independent Black-owned businesses so you can decide if you want to invest in their products as well. Also, be mindful and do not buy things all at once, many of these businesses have just one employee, so they would not be able to handle a huge influx of orders. Try to buy in the spring or fall (the slow seasons) instead!

I also have an ongoing twitter thread that I add to for boosting which includes beauty and home products if you're not into fashion or just want gifts for friends. 

https://twitter.com/atelierinsomnie/status/1345195524811579392

First up, Moshimelon at https://moshimelon.com, a NBPOC crew with a focus on cute kawaii art and clothing and accessories. I bought some pastel and menhera accessories for when I just want to look cute, and was very pleased with the quality of the art and fulfillment.


Next is Kid Taro Studios at https://www.kidtarostudio.com/. Their shop is currently down, I actually bought a cute resin glitter shaker charm from them that isn't pictured. Feel free to follow their twitter for hip and cute art perfect for decora kei.





Also see Plus Size Kawaii Fashion at https://www.etsy.com/shop/PlusHiiKawaii. They have plus size lolita and fairy kei clothing and accessories, along with resin jewelry that is both cute and creepy. I cannot wait to wear my strawberry shortcake barrette.

Finally, consider Elegy clothing at http://www.elegyclothing.com/lolita, also currently closed for new orders, for all of your gothic and lolita needs. I got two custom-sized blouses that look professional (certainly 1000 times better than I can sew lol) and feel soft and comfortable to wear but don't wrinkle as easily as cotton.



Oops, forgot to add this to my Black-owned businesses thread, it was in my small businesses thread, but Miss Candyholic at https://misscandyholic.com also sells a variety of clothing, accessories and masks for lolita and fairy kei fans. Look at these adorable San/rio facemasks! Check out their plush purses too.


I actually have bought from a few other black-owned businesses from the before times, you know, when we went to cons around other people unmasked, but don't have any recent purchases to write an honest review from so they were not included.

Also check out Lolita Collective for different sellers around the world specializing in a variety of styles that you can get all from one handy dandy site. https://store.lolitacollective.com I especially like Mossbadger's masks and earrings here.

Anyway, feel free to ask more questions on my social media if you want my honest reviews! I will continue to buy more stuff (but slowly as to not overwhelm anyone of course) and share haul pics on twitter and instagram!

Monday, February 1, 2021

[discussion] larme fashion summarized

I thought about transcribing my Larme youtube video for people who don't watch videos or have auditory processing issues, but half of it is a powerpoint slide in which I read off the words, so I will just paraphrase the rest here instead.

I feel that larme (or just "girlish" fashion as it is supposedly referred to in Japan) could be here to stay for longer than other substyles that have since disappeared after a few years (example: mori girl, dolly kei), and that's why I wanted to make a current video to showcase larme. Since the last post on petite-dollies from 2017, a blog I highly recommend as it was moderated by a group that was/is living in Japan, Larme established a new website that sells a few items, as well as a youtube channel and tiktok channel along with its already present instagram and twitter.

I purchase the Larme magazines from Amazon.co.jp (I otherwise avoid buying from Amazon lol), CD Japan and Kinokuniya. I think they are worth getting if you are into the girly and feminine sides of Japanese fashion, as the photoshoots are very artistic and the rest of the magazine is full of tips and makeup/hair tutorials.  Not every magazine comes with "freebies," but many do, and I got a hairtie and some lip/eye tints from two of the issues.

Since Larme is partly dependent on what's currently trending in the fashion world, and doesn't have a set silhouette like lolita or makeup/hair like gyaru, one might wonder if it's really a style.  I argue that it's distinct from street wear or casual wear that you might find at Uniqlo, it's just more Shibuya than Harajuku.  Petite-dollies outlines subcategories of the fashion that Larme models prefer, and that's a great starting point to what sets larme or girlish fashion apart.  Like with casual cute styles (example: himekaji, otome kei lolita), one ought to either (try to, lol) get the clothes of your preferred style on point or emphasize the hair/makeup which can be somewhat unique to Larme.

The reason I like Larme is that it's a bit more normcore than other Japanese street fashion styles that sometimes I'm too old and tired to wear, but still edgy and cute and interesting, especially when combined with the somber, serious, just-finished-a-crying-session vibe. I too am always on the verge of tears after 2020 happened.

In the last part of the video, I showed my favorite Larme face (big circle lenses, natural lashes, emphasized tear bags, lots of blush), and some simple Larme outfits that I created with stuff I bought over the years from the Liz Lisa website, Closet Child/Wunderwelt, Lace Market and western stores.

My favorite brand, Liz Lisa, used to be "the" gyaru and himekaji brand along with Jesus Diamante, but seems to have evolved into a purely cute brand with hints of its glorious hime gyaru past.  Other Larme favored brands include Ank Rouge, Swankiss, EatMe, Secret Honey, Rosemarie Seoir, titty&co and many more.  I also like clothes from Axes Femme and Milk, and you can get outfits from western stores like Forever 21 and H&M. Lastly, if you like the vintage and retro French and Americana looks, thrifting and sewing/altering your own stuff is also possible and very sustainable.

Like I said, just visit petite dollies for more info, I'm not here to replace them lol, I'm just here to add on new stuff or stuff catering to lolitas and gyarus and sewists. I hope this helps you on your fashion journey, thanks for reading all that!

Thursday, January 28, 2021

[coord] menhera in pink

Another brief interruption from lolita/ouji to talk about menhera, a Japanese street fashion that has followers around the world. Menhera ("mental health/er") has its origins in bringing recognition to mental health issues in Japan through use of art and fashion, and describes a style that can be pastels or gothic ("yami kawaii"). I've always been interested in medical themes since before I got into J-fashion but never felt the urge to wear it as an everyday fashion. But now that we're in a really bad state in most places due to coronavirus, why not give it a shot?!  (Pun was not planned.)



[Dress: Ota-Q; socks, bag: Enchanted Dreamwear; shoes: Liz Lisa; beret: Lolita Collective; pin, badge: Puvithel; lanyard, charm: Moshi Melon; necklace: Showtime Sweetie; charm: Kokokim; earrings: indie artist (forgot the name); bracelets: offbrand, homemade]

I took such faraway coord shots that you can't see all the details including the doctor bag with its syringe charm and my pill earrings or any of my sickly girl makeup that beautycam filters blow out anyway. Also, I surprisingly am not wearing gear from Listen Flavor which is the main source of menhera related fashion in Japan despite owning some Listen Flavor stuff. But I did my best in supporting black-owned businesses and independent/POC/LGBTQ+ artists to put together this outfit, which is a huge plus in my book. I am a little sad that the pinks don't match at all, so I think maybe finding 2 more big lavender accessories, like bracelets or a neckbow, might offset that.

Overall, this is a cute and comfortable attempt that I would wear outside if I had any reason to go outside. But we don't!

Footnote: menhera is more about mental health advocacy and artistic expression than simply cute/creepy medical-themed fashion, so I'm not menhera just by wearing this outfit. I do work with mental health issues in my dayjob and writing and art, but that's not necessarily related to my personal expression of fashion, just clarifying!

Saturday, January 16, 2021

LARME magazine and "larme kei" - Youtube video!

Made a short 3 min video on YouTube about LARME magazine and "larme kei" (or "girlish") fashion!


https://youtu.be/XBzOs5qRR44

I decided I don't like hearing my voice so I doubt I'll return to things that require me to listen to myself, but it was still fun and I hope you got something useful out of this video lol.




Featured dress is Miho Matsuda with the cutest cherry lace, a sheer H&M blouse, a Liz Lisa shoulder bag, some handmade offbrand headband and hair bows, and pair of black bow booties. It looks simple compared to a whole lolita coord, but still reflects that cute and sophisticated girlish fashion that I feel embodies the Larme magazine image.

Tuesday, December 22, 2020

[discussion] gatekeeping in lolita

[crossposted from Tumblr] 

Too long for twitter post, but I do want to say something about lolita fashion while I’m still active here lol.  This post is all my honest opinion, it’s not the “facts”, but it’s a thorough explanation about something I care about, and made in entirely good faith with no intent to upset anyone.

Sunday, December 6, 2020

[coord] Bronze Surgical Knife - International Lolita Day

Dragged myself out of bed to put on this coord while it was still daylight yesterday. I had been meaning to wear this coord for Halloween but was feeling sick (not covid sick (I hope)) the last half of October so I didn't even try. I'm still feeling crappy but I made the effort to have something to show for this year since I skipped the summer ILD.



JSK and tights: Mou Clothing (Taobao); blouse: Taobao; hat: Fanplus Friend; shoes: Innocent World; earrings: Metamorphose; gloves: Restyle; purse, ring, necklace: off-brand

I bought this dress not realizing it was made of lined faux suede and therefore not suitable for hot Texas weather. Luckily, today was chilly, so I did not completely waste my money lol. The hat I bought from another lolita on lacemarket, took off the cheap bow and replaced it with a Bodyline barrette with this cameo of a sickly Victorian person. I added a handmade veil to complete the mourning widow look. I probably could have worn a long-sleeved shirt to cover more skin, but I don't really have one, should get on that.

Here is the plague doctor look with a mask from Target and axe from Daiso. I moved the veil to use as a skirt to see how it looks but probably should just sew a real actual overskirt soon. Anyway, I'm glad to have finally worn the hat and skirt and tights and gloves which were all sitting untouched in my wardrobe. Now on to my bizarre and tacky prints!



Saturday, November 28, 2020

[diy - image heavy] makeover white purse to Betsey Johnson leopard print gyaru purse!

In an effort to add new content to this blog without having to dress up and wear a cursed wig, here is a tutorial of how I remade an old white purse to something gyaru-inspired! Note, this is a somewhat  image heavy post.


Here is the purse, purchased for like $5 at Ross in the girl's section, made of textured fake leather. I brightened the photo too much, but you can see faint blue/grey stains all over the front and yellowing handles. I barely used this purse but it somehow got dirtied, as white purses will. I was going to donate it, but I never got around to it due the pandemic, so I decided to see if I can remake it into something I might even carry around.